How do you decide to date again?

So this is probably the most difficult turning point in recovery. That is, deciding to date again is particularly hard for a victim of domestic violence. It requires trusting someone again. Letting some get close enough to influence my life and close enough to be dangerous. This is hard because I question my judgment skills after the past failed relationships. Will I see the warning signs before it is too late? What am I really looking for in a mate? Is it financial support? Is it compassion? Is it companionship? Or, is it just physical? Which is more important in the relationship? The answers to the questions are particularly elusive. Their order of importance seem to change daily.